Tuesday 30 October 2007

Ek Ladki..

She appreciates others for their smile. She also tells people how smart they look. Appreciating others is the best way to motivate them. And when people are confident, with positive attitude half of their sickness is healed. So I guess it is understood that she is a doctor.

My interaction with her started around one year back through “Gandhidham” community in orkut. I had started one thread on “Awareness towards HIV-AIDS”. She put her valuable comments on the issue and I got the opportunity to have her as my friend.

She never uploaded her snap on orkut but her entries and scraps fascinated me. Her entries showed lots of enthusiasm, cuteness, and were full of masti. I always waited for her new comments on any of the thread she was participating.

When I visited G’dham last time in April, I requested her to meet me but she gave an incongruous excuse to me. Of course girls won’t go to meet unknown persons and that also in town like G’dham. Gradually our interaction increased and we are good buddies now.

I always adore her as very lively person. I imagined her loud laugh whenever we exchanged naughty scraps. In office hours which are so lonely and dead, her scraps made me to smile; they were like energy booster for me. I am lucky enough to have her as my friend.

So upon my recent visit to G’dham she agreed to meet me. I was quite excited to meet her. I had not seen her before but frankly, I was not excited to see how beautiful is she or what would be her figure which I (boys) look in girls. I was excited to meet the person who is energetic, smiling, cute, social, doctor and my friend.

Finally I met her in Garba ground in Oslo. I saw her dancing. She was dressed in traditional Gujarati Ghagra-choli, a bit of makeup, and was dancing fabulously bare foot with inexplicable expression on her cute sweet face. She resembles Komal Chautala (Chak De India!) in height, Aishwarya in eyes, Katrina in her soft & charming skin, Priety in her cuteness and Kajol (KKHH) in her words. Yes! She is so damn beautiful. Now that was really amazing. I couldn’t believe in that damn gorgeous beauty angel and went to see her again and again, where she was dancing Garba. Her beauty thrilled me. She is combination of brain and beauty which is an exception in women. I really felt proud of my self for having such a wonderful friend. I told to my cousin about her and she became more excited than me to meet her. Finally I ended up telling each of my friends, cousin and family about her. I’ll tell you my little sis reaction: Viveeeeek!!! How come! How did you get such a chweeet friend! But after a little pause; she said with little bit pride – “Aakhir Bhai Kiska hai”

“Garba khelne kaun mera bapu jayega” – She was replying to someone on phone and I was standing beside, listening. Hearing that, I imagined, when patient will approach her for consultation, she will say – “ let ja mamu, apun abhi tujhe thik kar dega”. Patient would think, Life is so beautiful and wonderful and I am sick! I guess prescribing medicine will only be formality for her for the sake of earning.

I know she would be getting lots of appreciation from lots of people around her, and mine would be one more for her. I believe, whenever anyone acknowledge someone’s good qualities, he/she should accept it gracefully and be thankful to almighty for everything instead of complaining for things, she doesn’t have or she wished but couldn’t get in life. People receive praise for their good qualities and achievement when they are humble with layman. I think, this girl try to enjoy every moment in life and make everyone happy. I wish she would be same forever, happy and making others happy.

Visiting Gandhidham for only seven days is always too short for me. But this time it was in a blink and I was back in office. We couldn’t talk much and also missed the long ride together otherwise I would have put much more content here about her.

She told me, she can read person’s mind who is talking to her by the way he communicates. That made me quite curious to know her thoughts about me. I expect her frank and true remark about me so that I can tell whether she is correct in her claim.

I wish, she will remain my friend forever and won’t charge any consultation fee from me. I hope she enjoys my friendship and I haven’t hurt her by any means.

11 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi Vivek,

I dont know much about her, but u have now made me curious to know her.

But the conclusion of this explanatory introduction breif detail for someone is that " Dude, you have improved remarkably in the way of presenting things clearly in a good mannered way. I really appreciated that part in this introduction.

Owing to above, I feel little jealousy that i need to improve my language but on the contrary I am happy for you.

Take care... And regarding Ek Ladki.... I need to be get admitted so has to get a theraphy from so called "Ek ladki" ;o)

Anonymous said...

It appears from our words that one of the high points of your G'dham visit was meeting with this female. The way you fondly recount your experiences with her make me believe that you almost fell in love.... yes.... almost!

Anonymous said...

on second thoughts....
... she sounds like someone I can fall in love with very easily... arre please us se poochna mere liye koi vacancy hai kya?

Vivek Ghiria said...

Love is either inexplicable or has myriad definitions. This word itself has so many meanings. I love people if they are good, and I think almost everyone is good in one way or another. Love between boy and girl is quite different than that. For many, Love just happens. For me, it will happen only if I let that happen. I may sound little conservative while saying that but I accept that for myself.

Unknown said...

hello vivek ji !!!
ye kaa ladki ladki laga rakha hai aapne ???? gandhidham me to kya puri duniya mein itni achhi ladki koi ho nahi sakti jitni zyada uski aapne taarif ki hai !!!! arre bhai hum itne saalo se yaha rehte hai hume to aise koi nahi dikhi , jo itni beautiful ho !! wo kehte hai na ke khoobsurati dekhnewalo ki ankho me hoti hai , bhai hume to lagta hai ke aap ka usse dekhne ka nazariya zyada khoobsurat hai uski khoobsurati se !![;)]

Unknown said...

............ aur waise bhi , jaisa ki tumne kaha ke wo kehti hai wo logo ki ankhe padh ke bata sakti hai koun aadmi kaisa hai, iska matlab wo bilkul bhi bholi bhali yaa cute nahi hogi , balki muje to lagta hai wo kuch zyada hi over smart hai , tabhi to tere jaise itne achhe aur nek insaan pe itna jaadu chala diya hai ke tune pure ka pura itna lamba blogg likh dala uss pe ?????
dekh me bata raha hu , inn ladkiyo se bach ke rehna , ye sali hum ladko ko kahi ka nahi chodegi !!!
aur jiske bhi baare me tune ye likha hai naa, pls usse ye kabhi mat batana ke tune aisa koi blogg likha bhi hai, i tell u .. inn ladkiyo ko naa itna sar pe nahi chadhana chahiye !!! saali hawa me uddne lagti hai !!( mere personal experience se keh raha hu bidu !!)[;)]

Anonymous said...

surya mere bhai, mere dost tu ekdum sahi kehta hai yaar. apun logo ki saari life barbad kar di hai girls ne..... arre ladkiyon aajtakk doosri ladkiyon ko nahi samajh paayi.. hum kaise samajh sakte hain?

Unknown said...

bilkul sahi anant ji !!
dekha vivek , abb jo bhi tera blogg padh ke comments padhne aayega , sab meri hi baat se sehmat honewale hai!!!! isliye mein to kehta hu ke bhalai isi me hai ke tu ye blogg hi delete kar de......
waise ek baat to manni padegi , ke wo ladki bahot hi lucky hogi ke tu uska friend bana!! aur uss se itna impress hua !! man na padega teri writing skills ko yaar,tune itna achha likha hai uske baare me ke mere jaisa brahmchari bhi ek second ke liye uske pyaar me gir gaya !!! [;)]
waise uska mobile no. de naa agar tuje koi problem naa ho to !! promise me usse apne bhai log wale non veg jokes nahi bhejunga !! [;)]

Vivek Ghiria said...

are surya to bindaas message bhej use... veg, non-veg, non-non-veg.... usko koi problem nahi hai re...... wo ekdum bindaas ladki hai... bole to aisa karte hain tu apun ka number note kar le, phale tu apun ko bhejne ka... agar mere ko thik lage to aupn usko forward kar dega... are tension nahi re...tere naam se forward karega...

Anonymous said...

oye surya ke bachhe....
anant nahi... 'Anat' hai mera naam.... haan mujhe pata hai uncommon hai... but mera attitude bhhi uncommon hi hai... samjha dhakkan?

Prajot Gawshinde said...

:) Vivek......Again huh....Mirage :) dude ..its called mirage..but you should be a love story writer by now.. :)