Ek Ladki..

She appreciates others for their smile. She also tells people how smart they look. Appreciating others is the best way to motivate them. And when people are confident, with positive attitude half of their sickness is healed. So I guess it is understood that she is a doctor.

My interaction with her started around one year back through “Gandhidham” community in orkut. I had started one thread on “Awareness towards HIV-AIDS”. She put her valuable comments on the issue and I got the opportunity to have her as my friend.

She never uploaded her snap on orkut but her entries and scraps fascinated me. Her entries showed lots of enthusiasm, cuteness, and were full of masti. I always waited for her new comments on any of the thread she was participating.

When I visited G’dham last time in April, I requested her to meet me but she gave an incongruous excuse to me. Of course girls won’t go to meet unknown persons and that also in town like G’dham. Gradually our interaction increased and we are good buddies now.

I always adore her as very lively person. I imagined her loud laugh whenever we exchanged naughty scraps. In office hours which are so lonely and dead, her scraps made me to smile; they were like energy booster for me. I am lucky enough to have her as my friend.

So upon my recent visit to G’dham she agreed to meet me. I was quite excited to meet her. I had not seen her before but frankly, I was not excited to see how beautiful is she or what would be her figure which I (boys) look in girls. I was excited to meet the person who is energetic, smiling, cute, social, doctor and my friend.

Finally I met her in Garba ground in Oslo. I saw her dancing. She was dressed in traditional Gujarati Ghagra-choli, a bit of makeup, and was dancing fabulously bare foot with inexplicable expression on her cute sweet face. She resembles Komal Chautala (Chak De India!) in height, Aishwarya in eyes, Katrina in her soft & charming skin, Priety in her cuteness and Kajol (KKHH) in her words. Yes! She is so damn beautiful. Now that was really amazing. I couldn’t believe in that damn gorgeous beauty angel and went to see her again and again, where she was dancing Garba. Her beauty thrilled me. She is combination of brain and beauty which is an exception in women. I really felt proud of my self for having such a wonderful friend. I told to my cousin about her and she became more excited than me to meet her. Finally I ended up telling each of my friends, cousin and family about her. I’ll tell you my little sis reaction: Viveeeeek!!! How come! How did you get such a chweeet friend! But after a little pause; she said with little bit pride – “Aakhir Bhai Kiska hai”

“Garba khelne kaun mera bapu jayega” – She was replying to someone on phone and I was standing beside, listening. Hearing that, I imagined, when patient will approach her for consultation, she will say – “ let ja mamu, apun abhi tujhe thik kar dega”. Patient would think, Life is so beautiful and wonderful and I am sick! I guess prescribing medicine will only be formality for her for the sake of earning.

I know she would be getting lots of appreciation from lots of people around her, and mine would be one more for her. I believe, whenever anyone acknowledge someone’s good qualities, he/she should accept it gracefully and be thankful to almighty for everything instead of complaining for things, she doesn’t have or she wished but couldn’t get in life. People receive praise for their good qualities and achievement when they are humble with layman. I think, this girl try to enjoy every moment in life and make everyone happy. I wish she would be same forever, happy and making others happy.

Visiting Gandhidham for only seven days is always too short for me. But this time it was in a blink and I was back in office. We couldn’t talk much and also missed the long ride together otherwise I would have put much more content here about her.

She told me, she can read person’s mind who is talking to her by the way he communicates. That made me quite curious to know her thoughts about me. I expect her frank and true remark about me so that I can tell whether she is correct in her claim.

I wish, she will remain my friend forever and won’t charge any consultation fee from me. I hope she enjoys my friendship and I haven’t hurt her by any means.

Cricket mania - Team India ban karo

Australia lost last match with just 9 runs, and today Aussis won the match by overwhelming 9 wickets! That’s really fabulous. I really appreciate Aus’s consistent performance.

Just few days back Indian team won world cup and now they are loosing match like anything. It’s very hard to memorize all those rewards honored to them when Team India returned from South Africa. If Team India was so capable few days back what happened suddenly. Cricket is game of uncertainty, I know, but this rule doesn’t apply if one loose all the game it play.


I actually doubt capability of Indian cricket team, and more than that I hate the hype for cricket in India. I personally believe that, I would prefer to play cricket for 9 hours if I get that much time than sitting and watching cricket. I remember that day in college when I was entering into the mess to have my lunch and one of my friends asked me, Hey Vivek do you know what is the score? I asked, of what? He gave me strange look and asked me, don’t you know there is a cricket match of India? I said – No! He was amazed like I told him that, I was with your wife last night! That’s really absurd. In India if you don’t know match schedule and are not updated with the score card, you are absurd! I really wonder, if the question “what is our national game?” would appear for 10 million question in “Kaun Banega Karorpati” after few years.

I also love cricket but I am not obsessed about it like most others in India. I would urge people to enjoy cricket and not make propaganda of it, specially media, politician and promotion companies. Except Cricket, every other game is starving for fund. Little diversion of fund from cricket to other games will help a lot to motivate other games also.

Gradually my mind is observing only ghastly qualities of Team India and I wish India would loose all the match in next one year so that this hype could diminish. Even If India wins all the game, I wish if this hype could diminish.

Other games need our support, Let’s motivate them also.

Dil Dosti etc..

Three things are clear. Sanjay Mishra is dead. Apurv survived and Apurv is still looking for love(sex). But I wonder what really killed Sanjay ! Was it Sanjay himself, Prerna, Apurv , the opponent contestant in union election or PRAKASH JHA?

I appreciated Prakash Jha a lot for his movies like Aapharan and Gangajal. These movies revealed the social evil and conveyed clear message that – “bad things last” and he showed these based on few real incidence. But after watching his latest release last Friday “Dil Dosti etc...” I doubt the Prakash Jha’s motive of producing this movie. Let me tell you what I comprehended from this movie.


I think Prakash Jha couldn’t decide –“what really killed Sanjay” so the movie ended with riddle. He let audience decide, who really killed Sanjay based on their perception. So that they can justify the scene and hence the movie. I took each option provided by him and analyzed them.

Did Sanjay Mishra kill himself? I really doubt that. But if he did than we should learn from his mistake. Friends are also human and our expectation for them should not overpower our emotions. No wonder friends can cheat and hence it’s our responsibilities to identify the correct ones and stay away from selfish cunning friends.

Did Prerna Kill him? I guess yes and actually Sanjay let her do that. We youth think Love knows now boundaries but actually it has. Sanjay thought he could change Prerna once they would get married. They both were from completely different society with different perception about life. Sanjay dreamt to marry the girl who wants to be a model and doesn’t hesitate to ramp in lingerie. Everyone one of us has our comfortable zone which we define based on our perception towards life, family background, and ethics. Sanjay crossed this zone and suffered. At one scene (They chase bike riders on bus and fight with them) Apurv said, Sanjay knows what he wants to do and how to do that. I think that dialogue bluffed the audience.

Did Apurv kill him? Yes he did. His sexual desperation and ego to win the challenge killed Sanjay. When Sanjay caught Apurv and Prerna red handed I foresee the end of movie with Apurv death. But what actually happened was opposite to my opinion.

Did the opponent contestant in union election kill him? Fair chances. After all every thing is fair in love and war.

Now at last my doubt is on Prakash Jha. I think he didn’t murder only Sanjay but also thoughts of most of the youth in colleges and outside college. If I would have been in college while watching this movie, I would have very much inspired from movie. I would have thought – Smoking Bidi is not dangerous to health as there is no warning on the pack. If I live carefree life, without any plan in life and sleeping all around whenever got an opportunity – I am survived. But If I would have been living life akin to Sanjay Mishra, who valued the life, with dream to achieve something in life and working hard to realize them, I would have scared because – At last I am dead!
Also my belief towards politics that, politics is province of citizen of Bihar would have been strong. Movies like this only discourage youths from opting politics. I also wonder why only citizen of Bihar contest for election in all movies!

Dil Dosti etc.. basically suggest few good message but lots other which will misguide youths, and the trauma is that, few good message are all implicit which can hardly be comprehended by today’s young generation and all bad messages are explicitly revealed in the movie.
What the hell is the significant of telling people what “Fast-food” implies when a prostitute says that!